Is Masculinity “Toxic”?

Hold on for the ride on this one — it might get bumpy!
The jury is coming back in to the room in a hypersonic court-hearing of the times. Masculinity is on trial. A whole lot is on trial, actually: Capitalism, Western Values, Christianity, Femininity, Sexual Mores, Patriotism, Gender. But here I just want to look at masculinity. To determine when it is toxic, if ever, and what to do about it, if anything.